(Book) ⚡ Secret Survivors ⚟ eBook or E-pub free

This book was instrumental in helping me understand the far reaching effects of childhood incest Through her work with survivors, she was able to outline many behaviors and responses that are often found in survivors Some reviews seem to believe the book offers a checklist for those trying to find out if they were abused I don t see that intent For those who ve experienced abuse, this book can help the make sense of beliefs, fears and behaviors that result from feeling unsafe and from being This book was instrumental in helping me understand the far reaching effects of childhood incest Through her work with survivors, she was able to outline many behaviors and responses that are often found in survivors Some reviews seem to believe the book offers a checklist for those trying to find out if they were abused I don t see that intent For those who ve experienced abuse, this book can help the make sense of beliefs, fears and behaviors that result from feeling unsafe and from being betrayed very hard read but worth it. A very good book for those dealing with incest and abuse It could use a good editor to help cut the repetition and to make the book easier to use It is hard to go back to find where she says. I liked this book because it speaks to survivors and serves as an excellent resource, to those counseling others who have gone through this kind of situation It will stay on my bookshelf and be revisited in the near future. This is a terrific overview of all the collateral damage caused in the lives of incest survivors women who shower fully dressed, women who find abusers to date and marry, problem drinkers, women who hear voicesThe main problem here is that it promotes that everyone is an incest survivor hysteria we remember so fondly from the early Nineties Just because you see snakes on the walls or can t remember your whole childhood, it doesn t mean your father raped you, OK The other issue is that it d This is a terrific overview of all the collateral damage caused in the lives of incest survivors women who shower fully dressed, women who find abusers to date and marry, problem drinkers, women who hear voicesThe main problem here is that it promotes that everyone is an incest survivor hysteria we remember so fondly from the early Nineties Just because you see snakes on the walls or can t remember your whole childhood, it doesn t mean your father raped you, OK The other issue is that it doesn t discuss anything but problems There are no solutions in here at all other than a sweeping statement to the effect that if you are having any of the 8,000 problems in this book, you need counseling Duh I highly recommend this book for any female who is an incest survivor, anyone who loves a female incest survivor, or is counseling a female incest survivor Though I don t agree with all of the author s ideas and assertions rarely the case for me anyway , this is the first book I ve read that provides such a comprehensive understanding of incest specifically, not just childhood sexual abuse That the copy I checked out from the library is so worn and tattered saddens me, knowing that there s su I highly recommend this book for any female who is an incest survivor, anyone who loves a female incest survivor, or is counseling a female incest survivor Though I don t agree with all of the author s ideas and assertions rarely the case for me anyway , this is the first book I ve read that provides such a comprehensive understanding of incest specifically, not just childhood sexual abuse That the copy I checked out from the library is so worn and tattered saddens me, knowing that there s such demand for a book like this Amazingly sothis book spoke to me volumes A MUST read for those who want to be whole and to have insight into helping othersexceptionally applicable Do yourself and your family a favor and read this one I can t say enough good things about this book, its something that everyone should look at and consider for you may be the only one to notice someone else that needs help and you yourself may not even know that there are things you deal with that can be healed from within.This book amazed Amazingly sothis book spoke to me volumes A MUST read for those who want to be whole and to have insight into helping othersexceptionally applicable Do yourself and your family a favor and read this one I can t say enough good things about this book, its something that everyone should look at and consider for you may be the only one to notice someone else that needs help and you yourself may not even know that there are things you deal with that can be healed from within.This book amazed me and strengthened meI highly recommend it Extremely difficult but insightful read I appreciate this book particularly for it s objective, research based approach Secret Survivors provides compassion, information and validation for female survivors of CSA. (Book) ⛓ Secret Survivors Õ A resource of excellent caliberHighly recommended for those who suspect that they are unconscious survivors of abuse and especially for therapists to dig into the darkest shadow part of human existence ELIZABETH KUBLER ROSS, MDCRET SURVIVORS is the first book to expand the definition of incest to include any adult abuser and to focus on what incest does to survivors E Sue Blume shows how incest is often at the root of such problems as depression, sexual and eating disorders, drug and alcohol abuse, and phobias and panic disorders Using this information and the author s guidance, survivors can identify themselves, develop alternative, nondestructive survival techniques and begin again on a new path toward a rich and empowered life Frighteningly good Anybody who wants to know or understand incest whether as a survivor, a loved one of a survivor, or for basic curiosity should take a peek at this book Although easy to understand, it may be adifficult read for those that have a soft spot for this sort of issue.